Friday 2 May 2014

5 Things Everyone Should Check Before Getting Into Relationship.

"RELATIONSHIP"
Single term with different expectations, cute feelings, bubbly heart and of course best understanding. 
You may not be the first one he loved. You may not be the first one she looked at with wide open mouth. The time when you feel something in your stomach, when every thing around you starts blowing into environment, when you start adoring red color. You need someone who can usher you to the best seat available in town. Who is that someone?
Your best friend? Your parents? Or Your close friend? 
None of these, The only person who can help you in this critical stage of affection is you yourself. Try sitting alone for a time and remove all your power of thinking the person you are fond of. And think over the following things before you get back to that person.
  • Past Life: It is so much necessary for a person to know about past life and experiences of their partner. When I say Past life, I mean almost everything about their past. Being it their school or about their ex. This will definitely help you figure out the 50% of the person you want to get into with.


  • Why did he/she break up with their ex? If his/her ex dumped them?:  In a relationship it sounds unhealthy when your partner talks about their ex. It makes you feel somewhat clumsy and you intentionally feel that you still cant replace them. I know it happens in almost every case but you need to hold your thinking abilities here and ask them directly or indirectly about their break up and who dumped whom? There are various reality shows broadcasted every week to show you the faces of current world and how people cheat on their so-called-loved-ones with new cheat code every time you watch it.   

  • Understandings: The most important knot in every relationship is how understanding their partner is? "Understanding" never say that your partner should hear the echo of their own footsteps. It is never important that the liking of two persons should match. One can hold a great relationship with different liking as well and that's what science says "Opposite Attracts". Understanding says that you should understand the liking of your partner, their desire, their dreams and everything that they can't whisper in your ears. 
  • Family Background: The foremost thing that everyone should ponder on before accepting someone as your soul-mate is knowing about their family. What do his/her father do? What his/her mother is? How much siblings do they have? and similar questions should run in your mind. Don't be a child, feel free to ask about their family. The family which could be yours someday.
  • Your Future as a Couple:  One thing which every girl chew over but hardly any boy does. If you want perfect and life long relationship and if you don't want to loose your partner, start cerebrating about your future. And if you don't have any future, Move On!
    You Don't Have Any Right To Play With Someone's Feeling.

2 comments:

  1. Agreed :) good one !
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    1. Hey Ananya :) Thank you (y)
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